A person's values, beliefs, insights and external behaviors are his lifestyle, which according to Ayatollah Khamenei is one of the dimensions of progress with the Islamic concept and an important dimension; Correcting and strengthening desire and reluctance is one of the important factors in lifestyle, which is very important in human development. Throughout history, humans have always faced disagreements regarding the necessity of religion, and there are research gaps in the field of reluctance versus the desire to be religious and its roots in human nature. The duality between human freedom and the limitation caused by having a religion is one of the challenging issues. In this article, by examining the concept of willingness and reluctance in the verses of the Quran and hadiths, we have clarified the unknown aspects of this ambiguity, explained the factors affecting human nature, analyzed the issue, and finally presented solutions to increase his willingness to accept religiosity. Investigating this issue is very helpful for clarifying the path of human behavior and reaching the highest goal of human beings; From the spiritual dimension, where the goal of man is salvation, prosperity and success, we should pay attention to the lifestyle; Even if we don't believe in spirituality and spiritual salvation, for a comfortable life, a life with psychological and open moral security, it is important to deal with the lifestyle. Therefore, the problem is a basic problem, the possible benefits of its investigation can lead to achieving unity and saving the public from going astray, and solve the current concerns of the Islamic society in order to solve the disunity between Muslims.